The Confident Swinger Podcast

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Sexuality #194

The Confident Swinger is BACK! The Lifestyle can be challenging, with all the thoughts and feelings it can bring up. The Confident Swinger helps you navigate that, while also focusing on YOUR personal journey. It's time for YOU to build your confidence and embrace YOUR badassery!

Recent Episodes
  • Going from Online to Real Life
    Apr 29, 2025 – 36:43
  • Don't Label an Experience as Bad
    Apr 22, 2025 – 25:09
  • Putting Together a Meet N Greet
    Apr 15, 2025 – 20:00
  • TCS: When NOT to Play
    Apr 8, 2025 – 19:48
  • The Confident Swinger is BACK!
    Apr 8, 2025 – 07:35
  • Taking a Break
    Mar 4, 2025 – 15:33
  • I Want to be CHOSEN, Not Needed
    Feb 25, 2025 – 24:38
  • The Dark Home of Shame
    Feb 11, 2025 – 20:40
  • The Secret to GREAT Sex is...
    Feb 4, 2025 – 15:50
  • I was Wrong
    Jan 28, 2025 – 33:19
  • Confronting Someone is Confrontational...Duh!
    Jan 21, 2025 – 20:51
  • YBLB: Asking For Help is a Gift
    Jan 14, 2025 – 20:33
  • YBLB Introduction Episode
    Jan 7, 2025 – 21:35
  • Your Bitchy Little Brain Trailer
    Jan 1, 2025 – 11:55
  • Breaking the Bi Guy Stigma, with R&R
    Dec 31, 2024 – 55:38
  • What Do You Do AFTER Play?
    Dec 24, 2024 – 33:48
  • When the LS Loses its Excitement
    Dec 17, 2024 – 41:19
  • How to NOT be the Creepy Guy
    Dec 10, 2024 – 33:41
  • Can You Be Too Respectful?
    Dec 3, 2024 – 30:38
  • Religion and the LS
    Nov 26, 2024 – 38:36
  • Rejecting Someone with Kindness
    Nov 19, 2024 – 28:33
  • Preferences, Turn-offs & Body Shaming
    Nov 12, 2024 – 36:02
  • The Uncut Penis Debate
    Nov 5, 2024 – 32:35
  • Chad's Jealousy Dragon
    Oct 29, 2024 – 25:09
  • Being Successful in the Lifestyle
    Oct 22, 2024 – 28:06
  • Making the First Move Workshop
    Oct 15, 2024 – 35:19
  • Dealing with Your Partner's Negative Emotions
    Oct 8, 2024 – 31:38
  • Wild in Westport
    Oct 1, 2024 – 22:49
  • Don't Talk it to Death
    Sep 24, 2024 – 37:23
  • Paradise Lakes
    Sep 17, 2024 – 35:11
  • Being Cocky About Your Sexual Prowess
    Sep 10, 2024 – 22:51
  • Planning Things vs Letting Them Happen Organically
    Sep 3, 2024 – 19:34
  • Dealing with Disappointment in the LS
    Aug 27, 2024 – 31:31
  • Thoughts and Emotions, the REAL D/s dynamic
    Aug 20, 2024 – 19:24
  • The "natural" D/s dynamic
    Aug 13, 2024 – 32:35
  • Are You an Overthinker?
    Aug 6, 2024 – 35:37
  • Left Neglected
    Jul 30, 2024 – 14:03
  • Medical Issues & the Lifestyle with Lisa
    Jul 23, 2024 – 42:00
  • Getting Better at Sex
    Jul 16, 2024 – 28:55
  • Chad's Interview on the Open Bedroom Podcast
    Jul 9, 2024 – 51:21
  • Aging in the LS
    Jul 2, 2024 – 23:02
  • Worrying about F-ing up Your Relationship
    Jun 25, 2024 – 29:18
  • The Magic of the Flirting Slow Down
    Jun 18, 2024 – 29:20
  • When to Slow Down in the LS
    Jun 11, 2024 – 29:54
  • Our Trip Up North
    Jun 4, 2024 – 42:36
  • Feeling Like You're Not Good Enough
    May 28, 2024 – 27:38
  • Episode 100: Jo is Celebrating!
    May 21, 2024 – 34:59
  • Episode 100, Bonus
    May 20, 2024 – 03:23
  • The Golden Pineapple Rule
    May 14, 2024 – 15:04
  • Give 5
    May 7, 2024 – 32:19
Recent Reviews
  • DaveP585
    A-maze-ing
    Jo gives great advice in these podcasts! She is an honest person who helps boost your confidence! This was the third podcast I came to when joining the lifestyle and it is by far the best!!! No need to look any further. I cannot wait to see what 2025 brings with her new podcast and with my confidence! I got to meet Jo in person in Westport WA. She is friendly and knows how to have fun outside the bedroom!
  • PICKLES-77
    Great coach, 2nd best dancer
    Long time listener first time caller. I have thoroughly enjoyed listening to each and every episode. My wife and I are somewhat new to the swinging side of parties but not to parties. We both have our different issues with confidence and assertiveness. We recently had the delightful pleasure of meeting Jo and Chad and it really helped to put faces to the names. I have always been a somewhat confident person internally, but I never put it out to others because I don’t want to come across like a douche. After all these shows that I have listened to, thought about, pondered, and tried to implement. I finally got to use it to my advantage and received a pretty substantial promotion at work. So there are some areas where the coaching has affected my brain and let me show that confidence and I felt like a rockstar! So thank you so much Jo, and I can’t wait to listen to all your future episodes and hopefully be able to see you sexy people again! #Pickles #ReMatch
  • K/Sue
    Such good information
    Jo gives such good advice about navigating the LS world. Often the advice pertains to my vanilla life as well!!!
  • Love-It-or-Leave-It
    You can tell Jo really cares
    Jo’s warm, sincere, honest advice about how to get out of your own head is applicable to all areas of life. She will challenge your perceptions and gently nudge you out of your comfort zones to places where real growth can happen. I look forward to listening every week.
  • DouKrem
    Great advice for everyone, swinger or not.
    Jo gives great personal development advice for everyone, regardless of being a swinger or lifestyler. Great audio quality and speaking clarity. Jo is both serious and funny. I just started listening two weeks ago and have been binging to catch up. I’m nearly there.
  • shandeya
    Love love love
    I absolutely love this podcast ! I haven’t came across one episode I did not like ! Jo is freaking amazing !
  • mwbsoundman
    I am HOOKED!
    I love this podcast so much! I feel like Jo is sitting in my living room talking directly to me. I love how she gets right to the point and doesn't sugar coat anything! I find the advise she gives crosses over into all aspects of mine and my husbands life! I am a fan for life!!!
  • Cali_C
    Fun and informative!
    I am new to the lifestyle and I really appreciate everything she has shared! So helpful, informative, and genuine. I appreciate this podcast so much and I recommend to anyone who asks about the lifestyle and how I got started.
  • jmkaylo
    Love me some Jo Leavitt!
    I love listening to Jo’s wisdom on swinging weekly. Such an informative podcast.
  • TexasCowboy8007
    Look forward to it every week
    Married male here and this is my favorite podcast to listen to! I love that it’s not just about sex but about how to become a healthier and overall better person. To me it really focuses on the foundation you need to build to be successful in the LS and I’m all about the concept of a strong foundation. I think what makes this podcast stick out from so many other LS podcasts is that it doesn’t feel like erotic audio porn like many others tend to do at times (referring to at a certain Nation podcast). Please keep up the great work Jo!
  • Hubbys #1
    Love the show
    Jo you are an amazing person. I have been in the lifestyle for a long time but at the last even I was at I could feel a shift in the way I was thinking. Things that would have bothered me before no longer does. Thank you for all your advice. God knows I’m still a work in progress but I know I am getting there. And in large part to you. Lots of love. Your hubbys #1 😉
  • Neilcritter.
    Absolutely excellent
    This is a well produced, well written focused podcast that is engaging and informative. I admire Jo's errors and you can tell she puts in a lot of research, thought and love in each of these episodes.
  • Bobbybrasher
    How does she know what I’m thinking?
    A member of a group I’m in recommended this podcast to me and I’m blown away. The episode on Fear of rejection has literal lines from in my head!! I’ve said those same things and done those same things. Jo really gets it and it helps to hear someone say I’m not the only one. Love this show and can’t get enough!!!
  • Bigdaddy69991
    Awesome
    Thank you for doing this podcast
  • Silver haired freak
    Fantastic podcast!
    Jo has an amazing show and she keeps it on topic. I truly enjoy learning from the way Jo comes at the topic from so many angles it is really enlightening! Keep up the great show!
  • dolonite86
    What a great show and resource!
    Ok so this is actually the first podcast I’ve ever listened too. Jo is amazing, she nails so many important issues and ideas! And like she say if you email her and put “let’s talk” she does respond and has heat insights, inputs and motivation! I listen while I workout and on my drive to and from work! Thanks Jo for the amazing coaching and forward thinking!
  • B&B Hellbent
    We love the show!
    We’re new to swing and thirsty for knowledge! I found Jo’s show during a long drive and listened to all the episodes that day. We like that it’s useful information instead of just a couple (and usually their friends) talking for most of the show and never getting to the topic. We liked that it’s a well produced show so it’s pleasant to listen to and Jo is a great host who is unapologetically potty-mouthed. We’re looking forward to new episodes!
  • pkt 4678864
    A very good show
    Great topics, great voice in a short format. Jo gets right into the subject and has great tips for us. We’ll done, keep them coming.
  • Chad Galindo
    Amazing Show
    Such a great show. The quality is amazing and the content is awesome! Can’t wait to hear more. Keep up the good work Jo.
  • RagtagSampson
    Helpful for all new and old!
    Amazing insight and truly helpful tips! Thank you for the confidence boost Jo!
  • Keys3333
    Top Notch
    Jo is great! She has a sexy voice that would make anyone want to listen, even if she wasn’t so funny and helpful…which she is! Take a listen, you won’t regret it! #JoFan
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