Polycurious

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Non-monogamy is not for everyone, but you might be curious about it. Could it be right for you? How do non-monogamous couples deal with jealousy? I was curious myself, and the more I asked, the more I became surprised by this unexplored topic. In Polycurious I have casual and intimate conversations with non-monogamous couples, sex and relationship experts, friends, and even people who tried polyamory and realized it wasn’t for them. This podcast is for the polycurious, whether you have explored non-monogamy or not.

Recent Episodes
  • 55. Aryn & Josh From Couples Therapy
    Apr 22, 2025 – 01:01:51
  • 54. When Their Actions Don't Match Their Words with Daniella Guimaraes (Velvet Ties)
    Apr 8, 2025 – 00:53:33
  • 53. How to Fortify Your Relationship with Lamees and Nick
    Mar 25, 2025 – 01:07:15
  • 52. How to Find Safety with Luna & Leo
    Mar 11, 2025 – 01:30:51
  • 51. Hotwife, Mono-Poly or Something Else?
    Feb 25, 2025 – 01:07:25
  • 50. Mono-Poly and Non-hierarchical
    Feb 11, 2025 – 01:02:57
  • 49. When You're Non-Monogamous and Your Partner Isn't
    Feb 4, 2025 – 01:09:02
  • 48. Don't Ask Don't Tell But Different with Fer & Seth
    Jan 28, 2025 – 00:52:50
  • 47. How to Deal with NRE (New Relationship Energy)
    Oct 30, 2024 – 00:18:41
  • Announcement!
    Sep 3, 2024 – 00:02:50
  • 46. More Than A Mother with Molly Roden Winter
    Apr 16, 2024 – 01:05:46
  • 45. Poly and Pregnant with Sarah Stroh from Monogamish
    Apr 9, 2024 – 00:49:09
  • 44. Opening Up After Two Decades Together
    Apr 2, 2024 – 00:42:46
  • 43. Opening Up After Two Decades Together
    Mar 26, 2024 – 00:43:11
  • 42. Can Non-Monogamy Make You a Better Parent? with Evolving Love Project
    Mar 20, 2024 – 01:17:34
  • 41. Getting Comfortable with MMF Threesomes with Chamberlin & Michael
    May 24, 2023 – 01:02:00
  • 40. Metamours Who Are Friends with Aviva, Lorena & JD
    May 17, 2023 – 01:05:15
  • 39. Intimacy and Psychedelics with Sarah Tilley
    May 10, 2023 – 00:52:32
  • 38. Twelve Lessons in my Polycurious Journey
    May 9, 2023 – 00:37:02
  • 37. How to Have a Good Threesome with All The Feels (Part 2)
    May 3, 2023 – 00:34:13
  • 36. Turning Jelousy into Kink with All The Feels (Part 1)
    Apr 26, 2023 – 00:49:47
  • 35. Opening to Polyamory with Jessica Esfandiary from Open Late
    Apr 19, 2023 – 00:53:41
  • 34. Managing Two Partners and Building Community with Jenny & Kris (Part 2)
    Apr 12, 2023 – 00:34:13
  • 33. Open From the Get Go with Jenny & Kris (Part 1)
    Apr 12, 2023 – 00:44:08
  • 32. Letting Go of Shame with Philip from Dear Poly
    Apr 5, 2023 – 00:52:43
  • 31. Healing Sexual Trauma with Jess & Zach from Sacred Ships
    Mar 29, 2023 – 01:00:43
  • 30. Being Solo Poly in a Long Term Relationship with Taylor and Alan
    Mar 22, 2023 – 01:01:35
  • Monocurious E3 - Tory & Jackson: The Power of Non-sexual Intimacy
    Feb 1, 2023 – 01:03:41
  • Monocurious E2 - Tory & Ava: Looking for Partnership in the Dating App Era
    Jan 25, 2023 – 00:52:12
  • Monocurious E1 - Sue & Jon "A Floating Island of Monogamy in a Sea of Fluidity"
    Jan 18, 2023 – 01:04:01
  • 25. Best Friends Open to Play and An Update on Our Relationships with Mariah & Fer (Season 2 Finale)
    Jun 28, 2022 – 01:10:04
  • 24. Growing From Polyamory with Ari & Jeshua
    Jun 15, 2022 – 01:07:31
  • 23. Forming a Triad and Decoupling with Marcela the Hypnoqueen
    Jun 2, 2022 – 01:15:17
  • 22. Intimacy, Mental Health and Communicating Desires with Valentin (Awake and Sexy)
    May 18, 2022 – 00:58:06
  • 21. When your Type of Non-Monogamy is Different from your Partner's
    Apr 28, 2022 – 00:32:44
  • 20. Unlearning Monogamy with Carol & David
    Apr 20, 2022 – 01:04:14
  • 19. Gaslighting & Manipulation in Non-Monogamy with Rachel Krantz
    Apr 6, 2022 – 01:13:16
  • 18. Being Solo Poly and Dating a Couple with London
    Mar 23, 2022 – 01:14:45
  • 17. Flirting as a Team with Jasmine & Felipe
    Mar 16, 2022 – 01:23:28
  • 16. Dating as a Newly Queer Person and NRE with Queer Dating Coach Ariella Serur
    Mar 8, 2022 – 01:02:31
  • 14. Broken Up But Still Together with Cookie & Jerry
    Feb 24, 2022 – 01:09:29
  • Bonus Episode - Bushwick Daily Feature
    Dec 3, 2021 – 00:23:22
  • 13. Falling in Love with Your Secondary with Mariah (Season Finale)
    Jun 10, 2021 – 00:51:38
  • 12. She is Open, He is Not with Fer & Seth
    Jun 3, 2021 – 01:03:55
  • 11. Overcoming Insecurities with Ruth & Alejandro
    May 26, 2021 – 01:10:36
  • 10. Doubting Polyamory with Mr. K
    May 19, 2021 – 00:57:54
  • 9. Being in a Triad and Dealing with Jealousy with Anna & Chetan
    May 12, 2021 – 00:35:10
  • 8. Relationship Anarchy, Being a Poly Parent and Alternative Relationship Therapy with Tarynn
    May 5, 2021 – 00:51:50
  • 7. Gender Roles in Non-monogamy with Ana & Dustin
    Apr 29, 2021 – 01:01:29
  • 6. Facing Insecurities Head On with Frankie
    Apr 22, 2021 – 00:53:04
Recent Reviews
  • AdamTheFlyer
    Great Interviewer
    An author friend of mine was on Polycurious so I listed to the interview and was blown away by Fernanda’s knowledge of the book and the depth of her questions. Unlike so many other interviewers who are obviously winging it during the interview, just trying to make content, Fernanda is asking the questions that inform and educate her audience. I cant recommend her show enough.
  • John Grees
    My fav show
    Wonderful podcast that offers valuable insights, practical advice, and thought-provoking discussions on navigating the complexities of polyamorous relationships.
  • JayK2024
    If you’re thinking about a non-conventional relationship
    Engaging and informative conversations covering the entire range from those monogamous but curious to those fully polyamorous and parenting. Really great introduction to ideas and experiences in doing relationships a bit differently than the norm.
  • Dginz1234
    Just so freaking good!
    We’re early on our journey and it has been so helpful to hear other peoples stories told in such an authentic way. When we opened this Pandora’s box we didn’t really know what we were getting into. Something we realized through listening to this podcast is that there are so many ways to approach polyamory. Some that untangle a thread we want to pull on, others were just not interested in exploring. Without the stories that Fer and the guest so bravely share, we’d step into uncharted territory without a map. So grateful I found it and recommend it to anybody who is even thinking about exploring the space or just interested in learning about how these stories can help them understand their broader relationships.
  • Christina Danielson
    Such a great listen!
    I am so glad I found this podcast! I am on a polycurious journey, so I always love to learn more about how others’ relationships are structured. The host does a great job at having diverse guests on, who each have their own unique experience in the community. I appreciate how it is a mix of personal guests as well as those working professionally in the space. Everyone is so open, vulnerable, and honest- it’s an honor to be let in on their own explorative journeys! I eagerly await for each new episode to be released. Thank you to Fer for evoking such interesting, passionate, and enlightening conversations! <3
  • Schmefyo
    Exploring Polycuriousity
    Fascinating for anyone who is interested in the ins and outs of non-monogamous relationships. Fernanda leads very thoughtful conversations with many different people and couples who all have a wide range of experiences. Interesting to learn from others and hear about their triumphs and challenges, what worked and what didn’t. Lots of great resources referenced as well. Enjoyed it! Can’t wait for the next season.
  • illich_Mujica
    An amazing source to anyone considering non-monogamy
    This show is one of the most honest windows into the lives and tribulations of real people navigating the world of polyamory and non-monogamy. I’d highly recommend this podcast to anyone considering exploring these types of relationships.
  • Mr. Maverick2U
    For polycurious, or even not!
    I loved hearing the adventures of different poly peoples’ relationships. I love how they highlight not only the joys, and don’t outright promote it for everyone, but talk about the things that work and don’t work. Fernanda is a phenomenal host and I really hope they continue with another season!
  • CarlMarcel
    A self-empowered perspective
    It was very entertaining and insightful. I enjoyed the structure of it and the flow of conversation. I loved the approach of it really being about choice, self-empowerment, and learning, rather than just sex. Overall 10/10!
  • Nicotabo
    Very insightful and inspiring
    Great content! Everyone should listen to it, no matter what their relationship status is. it’s both insightful and helpful to nurture the reflexion about relationships. Highly recommend!
  • Crfaov
    We don’t hear enough of this!
    Incredible podcast, I am so excited about this. Can’t wait for the next episode!!!!!!!!
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