BUT FIRST, SHE FAILED - Career Growth, Women Entrepreneurs, Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Growth Mindset, Confidence

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Do you ever struggle with imposter syndrome when it comes to your career or business? Wish you had unshakable confidence no matter who’s in the meeting? Ever wonder how those wildly successful women got to where they are today? What if I told you that every one of them had moments of “failure” would failure seem less scary to you? What if "failure" is part of the journey towards success and purpose?Welcome to the BUT FIRST, SHE FAILED podcast. In this podcast you will learn practical tips on how to develop the boss woman within you to excel with confidence in your career and business.Hear candid conversations with trailblazing women that are dominating in their fields as industry leaders, entrepreneurs, influencers and more. Learn as they share wisdom, strategies and get vulnerable about how moments of “failure” propelled them to where they are today.Hi! I’m Paola Soares:) I’m a former Journalist and National News Producer that has had stories appear on Univision, Telemundo ABC News among others. While working in news my favorite stories were always profile pieces that helped and inspired.I started this podcast because I’m passionate about helping women gain confidence in their careers, businesses and overcome the fear failing that many times can be holding them back from living the life of their dreams. Because I’ve been there. I remember:+ being in meetings with CEO’s, Anchors, and other high level bosses and being too nervous and second guessing myself so much that I wouldn’t speak up and share an idea that I really felt was a great one.+ Thinking that I was nothing like those boss women that I looked up, that they had never struggled and I was the only one that had setbacks. + Being let go from what I thought was dream job and feeling like like I was a "failure" and struggling to move past it till I had a life-changing realization.Now I’m taking my love of story telling and combining it with something that is on my heart, helping women overcome fear of failing and gain confidence when it comes to their careers, businesses and callings.Stop second guessing yourself and become the boss woman that deep down inside you know you are supposed to become. Shake off that discouragement, it’s not too late, you are not behind!If you are ready for your boss-woman breakthrough this podcast is for you! Get ready to get inspired!

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127. How To Revolutionize An Industry with Shoott.com CEO Jennifer Tsay
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126. 7 Ways Perfectionism Can Hinder Your Business, Career and Professional Growth
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125. What Causes Perfectionism and How To Combat it
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124. Are You A High Achiever or a Perfectionist? How To Know The Difference
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123. Are You Self-Sabotaging Through Perfectionism?
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122. 7 Reasons Why It's Crucial To Start Your Personal Brand in 2025
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121. How to Figure Out Your Perfect Side Hustle in 6 Steps
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120. Leaving Your 9-5 Confidently with Financial Coach Michelle Velasquez
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119. 6 Ways To Achieve Your Quarterly Goals Like A Boss
Feb 19, 2025 – 23:25
118. Supercharge Your 2025: 5 Steps to Your Most Productive & Fulfilling Year Yet
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117. How I Failed Again: A Year of Growth, Lessons, Challenges and What's Next
Jan 29, 2025 – 29:40
116.SZN Finale: 100K Downloads Celebration & Maternity Leave & How I Felt like I "Failed" & Reframed It
Oct 25, 2023 – 20:13
115. How Reconnecting With Your Roots Could Become Your Superpower with Author Johanna Rojas Vann
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114.How To Go From Creator To Leader In Your Industry with Fractional CMO Eugenia Woo
Sep 27, 2023 – 44:57
113. How Systemizing Your Life & Business Will Completely Transform It with Chelsi Jo Moore
Sep 13, 2023 – 41:24
112. The 3 Different Types of Limiting Beliefs That Could Be Keeping You Stuck and Stifle Your Growth REWIND
Aug 30, 2023 – 16:39
111. How To Claim Your Confidence with Auctioneer & Best Selling Author Lydia Fenet
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110. How to Supercharge your Business By Leveraging A Virtual Assistant with Belay CEO Tricia Sciortino
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109. 5 Steps To Overcoming Limiting Beliefs REWIND
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108. 7 Common Limiting Beliefs That Could Be Subconciously Holding You Back REWIND
Aug 2, 2023 – 18:15
107. 5 Ways Limiting Beliefs Could Be Affecting Your Career or Business REWIND
Jul 26, 2023 – 12:16
106. Part 4: How To Overcome a Major Setback That Feels Like a Failure
Jul 19, 2023 – 12:50
105. Part 3: How To Overcome a Major Setback That Feels Like a Failure
Jul 12, 2023 – 20:08
104.Part 2: How To Overcome a Major Setback That Feels Like a Failure
Jul 5, 2023 – 21:59
103.Part 1: How To Overcome a Major Setback That Feels Like a Failure
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100. 100th Episode Celebration! A Surprise Announcement + A Raw Behind The Scenes of the Podcast & Business
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99. The #1 Thing Stopping Entrepreneurs From Moving The Needle On Their Big Goals with Amanda McKinney
May 31, 2023 – 26:52
98.How To Grow Your Business Using SEO, Keywords & Blogging with Faith Hanan
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94. How To Effectively Grow Your Business Using Social Media in 2023 with Mandy Emerson
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92. How To Thrive At Getting Mentors As an Introvert with Stacy Brookman
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90. How To Know If Money Trauma Is Holding You Back with Luzy King
Mar 29, 2023 – 26:04
89. How To Build An Engaged Email List; The Do’s and Don’ts with Email Strategist Liz Wilcox
Mar 22, 2023 – 30:28
88. How to Get Yourself As a Guest on Podcasts to Promote Your Business with Scout Sobel
Mar 15, 2023 – 35:44
87. 2 YEAR Celebration!! A Behind The Scenes: A Deeper Look Into The Podcast & Business
Mar 8, 2023 – 32:55
86. Do You Love To Travel? Acclaimed Travel Advisor Rosyln Ranse Shares How To Create A Work From Business Around Travel
Mar 1, 2023 – 29:29
85. 3 Truths About Fear of Failing That You May Not Know
Feb 22, 2023 – 20:03
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Feb 15, 2023 – 34:19
83. How To Navigate a Career & Business Through Heartbreak with Break Up Recovery Coach Tal Yardeni
Feb 8, 2023 – 24:32
82. How To Permanently Overcome Limiting Beliefs with Shelly Lefkoe
Feb 1, 2023 – 40:27
81. That Sucked. Now What? How To Develop Audacious Resilience with Dr. Neeta Bhushan
Jan 25, 2023 – 48:43
80. Growth Mindset, What is it? And Why You Need It This Year
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Recent Reviews

vfromthevalley

Warranted 5 Stars!!!

I never leave reviews, but always listen to podcasts. I’m changing what I listen to and my self love is growing stronger. Podcasts like this are the reason. New fav podcast. (I only wanted to add that I still want to give 5 stars , but every other word you say is “right?”) Almost to the point of “I can’t listen anymore… I will continue to because I still want to give 5 stars , idk maybe it’s just me… “right?” 😅💕
GoldenlatinaVC

Inspired

Wow I am so inspired by this show. It’s so real and talks about life stuff I have experienced myself as a mother, entrepreneur and Mexican American woman. I have really enjoyed the topics and learned a lot. I’m glad to know I’m not alone in feeling failure at some point in my life.
Created To Be Loved

Love it!

It is so refreshing to listening to a Latina who is encouraging and empowering! The Creator to Leader episode was really helpful! Thank you!
Kryzzle503

Such a great podcast!

Packed with honest, actionable advice for business growth. She has a wide variety of guests which keep me coming back each week. Always worth listening to Paola!
Eugeniawoo

One of my favorite shows!

Paola is such a trailblazer, I love how’s she able to walk you from overwhelm to clarity with ease and kindness. If you want to grow into your calling and move past limiting beliefs, this podcast is for you!
Zedddxb

A must listen for any woman struggling to get unstuck!

Paola’s podcast is so wonderful. She’s vulnerable and personable while still being strong and practical. I’ve listened to several episodes so far and she provides excellent, actionable advice on how to identify what’s holding you back and work through it. The production value of her work is also outstanding, she’s got a great voice and her podcast makes for very easy listening. I’m so grateful I found her podcast and I recommend it highly!
Shuup87

Great podcast for professional and personal development!

Paola is a gift! I absolutely enjoy her practical tips, wisdom and vulnerability. It’s a great balance for somebody like me who wants to stay encouraged and grow. I’m grateful I came across her podcast and that I can squeeze in an episode before I start my workday. Keep doing what you’re doing! You’re making us Latina Professionals proud!
Taylor_MilanArt

An Elixir of Inspiration

Every episode is an elixir of inspiration, showing us that our so-called "failures" are merely detours directing us towards our true path. Paola Soares masterfully steers the conversations, letting her guests shine while ensuring the listeners extract tangible lessons from their stories. But what truly sets this podcast apart is its universal relatability. Whether you're an entrepreneur, a creative, or someone just trying to find their place in this vast world, "But First, She Failed" serves as a gentle reminder that every setback is a setup for a grand comeback.
melody joyy

Great podcast

Great podcast with good info but takes forever to get to the point:/
Churri’07

Great podcast!

Great podcast filled with practical advice. Gets to the heart of emotions and messages we need to challenge. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and the wisdom of others so that we can grow and lift each other up! Do yourself a favor and listen today!
LaurenGFitness

This podcast fills my cup!

But First, She Failed is the perfect mix of uplifting inspiration and practical information to grow your business! I would recommend it to all female entrepreneurs.
iamchellsbells

Stellar!

This is a truly binge-worthy podcast. I have gotten a lot out of each episode. I love the pace and structure of the episodes, I stay engaged and interested all the way through. I’m finding more grace for myself as I listen… grateful!
mannym13!

Terrific podcast!

But First She Failed is an insightful and enlightening podcast! Highly recommend!!
hann.marsh

So practical + helpful!

L-O-V-E this podcast! It's a breath of fresh air for women everywhere. Paola shares honestly about the realities of going after your dreams and all the ups and downs along the way. I'm always encouraged and inspired after listening. She always provides practical and helpful information that I can apply in my life and business. Highly recommend... it's a must listen!
S12hp

Such a GIFT!

Thank you, thank you, thank you! Sweet friend, this podcast has put words to my thoughts or feelings, but I could not nail them down. I am so very thankful that you are sharing your ups and downs, your testimony, your experiences, and the experiences of others to help propel others forward. Such a wonderful gift. Remarkable work!
LoveyKaur21

Fantastic Podcast

This podcast is absolutely phenom!
Metree1

“But first she failed” made me listen

I’m glad I listened to this podcast and even more grateful you held my attention the first few minutes. I’ll definitely tune in again, bless you!
kalinneree

Amazing!

I love this podcast! I find the episode so helpful! Thank you for creating this resource for women.
Kerri Naber

Just what I needed!

I was researching Growth Mindset and found this podcast on exactly the day I needed to! Very thankful for the honesty, the clarity, the personal stories, and the speed of information. Being from the north east, I always appreciate a fast talker! I’m immediately hooked, and started following along on all socials. Thank you for being a encourager of women!
NateHanan

Big Goal Setters UNITE!

I’ve NEVER been accused of setting small goals 😅 (No really, ask my husband). I love that Paola encourages us to set big goals AND put a plan into action to reach them! Thank you for bringing your voice and your knowledge to the podcasting space. So valuable and so needed! -Faith Hanan, Simple SEO
Rosalba Elizabeth

Me Encanta!

I love this podcast! So informative and helpful!
Shak199333

Loving this!

I’ve had the pleasure of meeting Paola at our local small group meetings! I really enjoy hearing about the different perspectives on how to move forward in career/ business endeavors with God at the center. Recently I’ve been feeling, stuck, unworthy, frustrated and uninspired. But listening to this podcast is starting to change that. Thank you Paola.
Charissa123

LOVE

I love how encouraging and joyful Paola is every time she opens her mouth she is such a blessing and always speaking life! So excited to see where this podcast goes in 2023!
Mkate Photography

Love the little nuggets of goodness

I love how Paola shares so much wisdom and bigger picture thinking on her podcast. She shares of personal stories and experiences and the learnings from them. This podcast is totally for the entrepreneur who is ready to work l”on” their business instead of only “in” their business.
raqsb

Love the podcast

I initially was looking for something to uplift me and get me out of my head. The but first she failed podcast allowed me to think about the next steps I wanted to do in my life and accepting failure and a moment to get up and try again. One episode I enjoy was the how to start a podcast episode which I am truly interested in.
rvargas1111

Empowering womem

Love this podcast. Great message and I love the perspective. Empowering women. Definitely looking forward to each episode.
Luvenec1

Such an amazing podcast!

This podcast has been extremely helpful and inspiring! I’m tuned in every week. Thanks for sharing with us 😊😊 —Lanecha Conner @idareyoutoheal
selenahope

Wow

I’m only on the first episode I’ve ever watched & my mindset is all ready changed. I left inspired today.
Camie W.

Real conversations that encourage!!

Now THIS is a podcast I can resonate with. Thank you, Paola, for showing the real (& sometimes hard) side of starting a business or building a career. In a world that loves to only showcase the highlights, I so appreciate your authenticity in showing that it’s not always sunshine & rainbows - & that it’s more than ok to experience some bumps in the road on our path to victory ⭐️ Thank you, Paola!
Trevor Oldham

Awesome!

One of my new fav podcasts!
AMSmith422

So excited for this!

Paola is a kind yet clear communicator and I’m thrilled to follow her show. She has such a tender tone and yet brings such truth to those who need the wisdom, encouragement, and advice to continue to move our businesses forward with confidence! Love her!
mloz18

Thank you for making this podcast!

I’m only on my third episode and I felt compelled to stop and write a review. I sobbed through the first two. Thank you for giving “failure” a platform and for giving me inspiration. I look forward to binging this entire podcast. Thank you!
healthnut88

Highly recommended!

It's refreshing to hear people share their stories of how they moved through burnout. As a fellow entrepreneur, I resonate so much with what Paola and her guests talk about on the show!
Intentional Edit

Yes, please!

Wow! I’m super impressed and inspired with these episodes full of real life stories. We often forget that failure is such an important part of the journey. I’m looking forward to listening to future episodes!
Sara Ann J

Overcoming Failure and dreaming OMG

This simply just tickled my heart because I LOVE to dream but sometimes we are not sure how to showcase our dreams outside of just in our minds and Paola gives defined steps you can take to get them out of just your mind so that you can look forward to walking those dreams out! Such great tips and steps! Thanks girl! ❤️Sara
Dpippen

Wow 🤩

Gosh, thank you for highlighting perhaps the most important part of the journey. We need more of this perspective!!
Julia M C

Gets me every time

Love this show!
hendopartyof4

Needed!

As a mompreneur who personally struggles with perfectionism and not wanting to fail — I needed this so bad!!! So grateful for Paola and her message!
Jude and Flynn

Perspective!

I’m super excited to dive in and be inspired by real life stories! In our social media focused society, we often get the “highlight reel” but rarely the REAL success journey that most always includes some failures along the way💓
jispree

Much Needed Podcast!

I absolutely love this podcast! As someone who often procrastinates and gets into analysis paralysis I needed to hear Paola say just start somewhere! This podcast gives you a glimpse into the lives of successful people who have overcome failure to live out their purposes’! Start with this podcast if you’re looking for inspiration on starting and not letting failure hold you back! Thank you for this Paola!
carrieG13

love this show!

Paola does such a great job! I love the topics she dives into and I love that she’s normalizing the ups and downs of successful women.
bluebbe1

Yes!

Love this concept!
A_Costume

Inspired!!

I love this podcast not only because of all the incredible women but it’s speaks into any area of how to overcome. If you need inspiration to keep going in any area of life, this podcast will give it to you!
meligoooooo

Love this podcast!

Love the topic and i think it’s so timely right now. To normalize failure especially amongst women is something we all need to hear.
Nasimon709

Amazing!

I LOVE this podcast! Such a great reminder to never give up and keep reaching for your goals! I love the transparency shared, encouragement and hearing everyone’s journey. Reminds me that there’s still so much left to be uncovered in life!
Mel_Lew

Encouraging and Valuable Inspiration

Love that with every episode I find something to relate to, something that I can reflect on, something to use in my next season of life!
Karlita's ChiTown

Chi town girl!

I loved this interview! I loved How open and honest she is about the things that happened along the way to her successful life! Amazing job Paola! You were truly meant to do this! Inspired!
Diana___Marie

Relatable + Encouraged

It’s so refreshing to hear this unique take on what “failure” can be. I enjoyed listening to this as a new full time entrepreneur. I’ve always loved stories from others of how they’ve overcome. Looking forward to the upcoming shows!
McCarter, T.

Intriguing

My wife listened to this podcast and I gave it a go too. Failure or perceived failure is generally always seen as a set back. However, Paola has demonstrated that it can be a time of reflection, learning and growth and can go on to shape a pathway forward. She went from viewing herself as a failure to embracing it as a learning opportunity. Overall, great podcast!
Aureilia

AMAZING !!!

I love the rawness, no cover ups. Thank you for being so pure. It’s not always easy to admit you failed and everything is a process. Love it, keep going !